you have to respect and love yourself enough to understand that you dont deserve to be treated, responded to, or dealt with in a certain, demeaning way by people whom you know and/or dont know, especially as a woman.
and you also have to respect and love yourself enough to surround yourself among people that understand that; that believe that; that value that; that will make things right in order that you are treated in a deserving, upright manner, no matter what the cost.
but also respect and love yourself enough to let go of those people in your life that are able to recognize that, but fail to do anything about it. let them go. just let them go.
sooo true. This is exactly what I realized today. That I am worth so much more than letting myself be trapped in this endless cycle where I am the only one who gets hurt. If I don’t mean enough to somebody else for them to change the fact that they are hurting me, why should they mean anything to me at all? They can apologize all they want but that doesn’t change anything at all. The fact remains that their actions haven’t changed a bit. And there isn’t room for that kind of anguish in my life. It’s time to let go. Completely.
But like seriously I DON’T WANT TO PAY $50 FOR A BRA
IT IS A BOOB HOLDER
IT IS LITERALLY NOTHING MORE THAN CUPS WHERE I CAN KEEP MY BOOBS
THAT SHOULD NOT BE SUCH AN EXPENSIVE ITEM FOR REAL THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO WOULD BE HONORED TO HOLD MY BOOBS THIS BRA SHOULD SHOW SOME DAMN RESPECT
I finally know what it means…
"We might look like we had a thing, but we didn’t"
it means that while it may seem like there was something there, evidently there wasn’t because I told him he was too immature and pretty much shut him down. It means that he was so pissed off that I called him on his bullshit that he decided there was nothing between us and no chance of it ever happening. Sorry buddy, but I have all the text messages that prove otherwise….
Hmm, Haven’t sneezed three times in a row like that in years! Apparently sneezing three times in a row is good or something though
the problem with me is
i have this like moment of insane courage
where I’m like…I’m gonna put myself out there
and take a chance
and be risky
and the minute it gets even close to real
i flake out